Hi Joris,
> Hopefully Microsoft is ever going to write decend documentation for at
> least
> the add-ins. Personally I liked the style of VS.NET 2003 much better than
> VS.NET 2005 help.
The documentation is much better in VS 2005, IMHO, but anyway there is a
whole section on my web site with most, if not all, resources to learn about
add-ins. There is a free book for VS 2005 add-ins. Check it out.
Unfortunally the add-in help mostly mentions "Microsoft
> Internal Use" with any events.
You can use any event available.
> I still have one buring question remaining:
> Do you also have recommendations or guidelines how to retreive the debug
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> I really like to have a integrated interface, as these are probably more
> reliable than a 'home-brew' one.
I can´t help about this, but try posting here:
http://forums.microsoft.com/msdn/showforum.aspx?forumid=57&siteid=1
or contact with the MS blog authors that are listed on my section.

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