Well, as of now, I am sending the command via a SqlCommand which I then load
into the sqlDataReader. I choose this approach because it was the only way I
could increase the timeout. Now the problem is loading the reader into a
datagrid!
Every Site i went to said to use this method:

datagrid.datasource = myReader
datagrid.databind()

This is my current code:
       myCommand.CommandTimeout = 130
       myConn.Open()
       myReader = myCommand.ExecuteReader()
       dgDisplay.DataSource = myReader

.......and this is the error I get

An unhandled exception of type 'System.Exception' occurred in
system.windows.forms.dll

Additional information: Complex DataBinding accepts as a data source either
an IList or an IListSource

I don't know why so many people have said to do this when databind is now a
property of datagrid.
Thanks again