I have a datagrid with the standard Edit and Delete columns that you can add
using the property builder.  I added a 3rd column for "Confirm Delete".

When the Delete button is clicked, it runs dg_ItemCommand, and changes the
visible column to say "Confirm Delete".  If user clicks on ConfirmDelete, it
then runs the handler dg_DeleteCommand and deletes the record.

The problem is that the column changes for every record so that every record
displays "Confirm Delete", and I'd rather display it only on the record the
user has clicked on.

Does anyone know how to do this?  My code is below.

Private Sub dg_ItemCommand(ByVal source As Object, ByVal e As
System.Web.UI.WebControls.DataGridCommandEventArgs) Handles dg.ItemCommand

       If (e.CommandName = "ConfirmDelete") Then
           dg.Columns(1).Visible = False
           dg.Columns(2).Visible = True
       End If

end sub

Private Sub dg_DeleteCommand(ByVal source As Object, ByVal e As
System.Web.UI.WebControls.DataGridCommandEventArgs) Handles dg.DeleteCommand

       Dim strGuid As String
       strGuid = e.Item.Cells(1).Text
       Call DeleteRecord(strGuid, strTableName)
       dg.Columns(1).Visible = True
       dg.Columns(2).Visible = False

End Sub

<Columns>
<asp:EditCommandColumn ButtonType="LinkButton" UpdateText="Update"
HeaderText="Edit" CancelText="Cancel"
EditText="Edit"></asp:EditCommandColumn>
<asp:ButtonColumn Text="Delete" HeaderText="Delete"
CommandName="ConfirmDelete"></asp:ButtonColumn>
<asp:ButtonColumn Text="Confirm Delete" HeaderText="Confirm Delete"
CommandName="Delete" Visible=false></asp:ButtonColumn>
<asp:ButtonColumn Text="Copy" CommandName="Copy"></asp:ButtonColumn>
<asp:BoundColumn Visible="False" DataField="ID"
ReadOnly="True"></asp:BoundColumn>
<asp:BoundColumn DataField="Yr" HeaderText="Year"></asp:BoundColumn>